As per Tantric view the first feeling (see from my eyes and not yours) is caused due to Niyati, the limitation of space. And What you asked as second part of question happens because there is individuality operating at two levels i.e. Ahamkara (objective ego) and Purusha (Subjective ego).
However breaking through or transcending through these limiting experiences is very much possible and you can in reality then be able to see from “My eyes and not Yours” and also experience ‘Aham-Idam’ to ‘Idam-Aham’ through spiritual practices of Tantra.
Interestingly when all these limitations fall apart you first time experience that it is You who is operating through every single particle in the universe. You are The source..
– Acharya Agyaatadarshan Anand Nath