I’m 28 years old and still virgin . ., I can feel the energy in my body and this is wondering me., For example, when I have to work all hours with one of my colleagues. I think he can get through my mind and I feel a burning sensation in the second chakra., I have tried to be like him. But I think he’s not interested. What can i do for my issue. in your opinion is a sexual partner is a solution to my problem.
Having understood your problem through your limited words I am prompted to say that your problem is not spiritual in nature. It is now time for you to get a life-partner, not a sexual partner. Presence of life-partner will definitely help and ease things out for you. I am suggesting to stay away from casual sex or trying things out with someone who is not committed to you deeply because that leads to holes in your Aura Body and drains away your energy. Casual physical intimacy especially in non-committal cases charges up the energy atmosphere of conjugation only in negativity. Such contact definitely makes auric-transfusion of energies and dominantly negative personality traits (even some diseases like migraine can get transferred due to auric-interaction) are absorbed by both the partners. I am saying this with a futuristic approach considering sometime later in your life you may get interested in your spiritual elevation and at that time such mistakes of past become a real road-block. Since you don’t know it happens you stay unaware of such leakage. And also you don’t know how to repair the damage or lock your aura it also makes you prone to negative para-normal forces which start sucking your energies away and affect your nature. This happens when you are in deep sleep.
Secondly, Your understanding of chakras and energy movements is also not mature enough so first get yourself exposed to some more experiential learning under the guidance of some Master. After that only you will be able to differentiate whether that is burning sensation an organic symptom or just energy built-up. Mind you, sexual arousal and urinal track inflammation is not the sign of chakra-energy-built-up.
Love and light
– Ach. Agyaatdarshan Anand Nath